fluff, I feel like the only thing I can HONESTLY give you right now is all my support. I believe you have been give great ideas and thoughts here and I know your t. is being supportive. I have never been in your situation before, so any advice I would give would be just guessing how I would feel in your situation. I'm here to just say, pour it out and lots of us are here to listen and support you!

On that note, I will offer yet something else unrelated....