(((Art)))
I am so sorry you are having to go through all of this. It is so difficult dealing with ambivalent emotions.
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You need to stop worrying and live your life.
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With this statement, your H is invalidating how you feel.
My H started going to a therapist who really is a good fit for him. It has helped him (and us) tremendously, as he has worked on his controlling behaviors.