Art, I went on your profile here because I recalled you having this same issue for awhile now with your H. You actually started a thread last year in August called Marriage or Therapy and discussed how your H wanted to move out because you went back to therapy and were spending all your money on it, etc..etc..etc...(I guess during one of your breaks). Obviously there is so much more that your H has not come to terms with. He’s still stuck in the same spiral and you are growing. It looks like in that thread he hates your therapist.