Also Art, upon skimming your older threads..it looks like you’ve “terminated” with this T a lot since 2012. I didn’t read all the threads but I hope all the times u terminated with this T since then is not because your H has his boxers in a bunch. It would explain at least part of the reason why you keep going back. There are probably other reasons there as well, but you should go as long as you need to go for you.