Art, I don't think there is anything inherently wrong about seeing a therapist indefinitely or, at the very least, having one on retainer. I consider it my gift to society. My local 9-1-1 call center probably thanks my therapist, as the volume of calls have dropped way down. Just saying that because the measure of successful therapy is different for everyone. It can even be just that someone likes going. Of everyone here, you have been one of the most joyful therapy goers I have had the pleasure of knowing.

I wish you had the finances to go as often as you like, because I kind of think that is playing into your decision back and forthing. And your h is just being a giant asshat, sorry to say, and that is definitely not helping.