What are your T's boundaries regarding outside contact or messaging them? I can email and text my T if I need to but I struggle to understand what that actually means. I have used it a few times but mainly only for scheduling purposes. There has never been any issues on the rare occasion I did message and they were always brief and to the point. I keep strict boundaries myself so would never impede on his personal life or time outside office hours regardless of the purpose of the text and would never expect a lengthy conversation which I think he is aware of. I do have an intense desire to message him at certain times for one reason or another mainly connection and attachment but have had difficulty doing so. It ends up causing me a lot of pain. Lately I have felt that although he wants to make sure boundaries are maintained that he thinks reaching out to him when I need to is a good thing but I am not sure if this is the case. I asked him this and he just skirted around the question and made a reference to me not worrying so much about boundaries and leaving that up to him. I'm not entirely sure what that means and it's confusing trying to figure out when might be okay and not. Has anyone else had a similar experience?