I really like your forrest analogy also, (((Darrel))) = I think the problem comes in when we are put thru the ringer as young children, at a time when we don't have the mental vocabulary or emotional range/experience to process what's going on. Then all the 'hardship' (read trauma) is cause us to inculcate fear, insecurity & distrust. Just some 'thots' - XO, Peanut

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