Yes, I know exactly what you mean Fuzzy. I've had my share of disturbing behaviors from the medical profession [and just people in general] as well. Very disturbing, tbh. It's almost daily.

What I do in these cases, if something they tell me isn't right, if something is infuriating me, is I let them know there on the spot. I don't care anymore. Let those angry feelings come out - who cares? No one! But control that anger at the same time with the key idea of simply expressing to them how you feel and why. They're always telling people you should express your feelings, right? Well, that's all it is. But be careful if it's in the workplace and not around children, obviously.

Fuzzy, I wish life was simpler and that I had the correct answers for things, but...that's my approach. ((((many_hugs_Fuzzy!!!))))