Being comfortable in one's own skin is key. We could all use a boost to our self esteem at times, but if you don't love yourself, how can you expect others will. Don't take things personally. I'm 65 and get dissed by my own 21 year old twin daughters. They don't respect my insights at times. I'm not as invested in the current reality they're faced with. I'm finding solace in connecting with people who value my opinion and where I am in my life today. There is somebody for everybody. LOL