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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
I've thought he's depressed for a long time but he won't admit it. All the mean stuff he was yelling at me the other night none of it was specifically about the cost of therapy. It was more about my being wishy washy and always going back and that I'm too attached to her (well that was true) and that I don't trust him. But also that when I did start talking to him and trusting him w my worry/stress over the accident related stuff he said he didn't want to hear my negativity. I said well that's why I talked to L but.... and then he started in on how I just need to stop worrying....
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Depression can come out as anger. It's what happened with my H after the sudden death of his close friend, which is what led us to marriage counseling (he was taking that anger out on me and D).
I do wonder if he could feel jealous of your T in some way? Not that it excuses how he's acting toward you, just wondering. But then...he also doesn't seem to want you to share your worries with him, so...