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Old Jul 18, 2018, 10:29 PM
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I suppose for me the immense unknown of what would happen if he left, and knowing I failed at marriage, is a scarier prospect than staying together and maybe or maybe not working it out.
2ex and I broke up once for about a year before getting back together and marrying. One of my major motives for getting back together was I didn’t want to admit I failed at the relationship.

That worked out well for me.

Last session Piaf and I got into a discussion about what we have nothing to fear but fear itself really means. It doesn’t mean fearing fear, but fearing that fear that will keep us from taking action.

Damn the torpedoes. Full speed ahead.

Eta: I love how singlemindedly cats sleep.
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