For many years I have been quite content to be single.

Recently after a man attempted to move me into a space where a relationship could be possible, I have been feeling like having a partners support would be something that would be nice. This relationship didn't work out as I knew it wouldn't because I refused to enter into a relationship with someone who hasn't left there current partner.

My problem in part is I choose the wrong men and that I seem to scare them off by getting needy.

I now feel really upset that no-one will ever want me because they can't see past my mental scars. Has anyone else any experience with getting to know new partners?

Would I be best going back to just being happy with my own company?