So, if you gave your T permission to talk to your p-doc, and then you asked your T what he told p-doc, and he said just two things and what they were...but then when you went to see your p-doc, she mentioned something else major he talked about regarding you...would that bother you? Trying to decide how to approach this with T tomorrow...had I not point blank asked him "Did you talk about anything else?" it would be different. But I feel like he wasn't honest with me. (This is the first time they've talked, incidentally.)

But I also don't want to turn this into a big thing. It's more I want to know going forward if he'll be open and honest about what he shares--if he's not OK with that, I might just revoke communication privileges.