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Originally Posted by Starry_Night
my first therapist abandoned me. She promosed repeatedly she would not ever terminate with me, that it would have a natural ending. She then one night out of nowhere, said “I’m done” and said she wouldnt be seeing me any more. there was no warning. there was no way to see it coming. nothing had been going wrong . she just, i guess, decided she didnt have the skills to help any more.
no preparation, no follow up. just... she was done.
i still have no idea what i did.
it screwed me up for quite a few years and ruined my trust in people.
she is still there at the same practice. i tried calling and emailing once, but she didnt respond. i wish i knew what i did.
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Tbh that is such a weird, messed up way to terminate therapy that I really doubt it had anything to do with what you did. If it was something you did but you had a good, professional therapist they would discuss their reasons openly with you and even be happy to clarify them afterwards to you. There is no way that a therapist behaving like yours did is being professional and following any ethical guidelines. It'll be most likely that she had got some serious issues herself that need sorting and she's taken it out on you.