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Old Jul 19, 2018, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by SorryShaped View Post
I too keep thinking I'm ready for a relationship, but, know that I'm not capable. I like the idea of being in love more than I like loving others.
PTSD makes it difficult for me too, because there are times I'm triggered and don't know why and can't explain it. It means there's times I don't know what's going on. It confuses and disturbs women. They want to fix me but there's not a missing part to replace, just a whole where nothing can go. Add to it that I'm bipolar one, ADHD, and a victim of many many assaults
Very sorry to hear you have suffered many assaults.

I can see why you have made this decision. I did think the same way, became unsettled by a mans advances and now think that it is ultimately better to focus my love where it is appreciated, with my family and friends together with self love and care.
Hugs from:
cptsdwhoa, Fuzzybear, Wild Coyote
Thanks for this!
cptsdwhoa, Wild Coyote