My husband and I both had traumatic childhoods, abusive relationships, etc. We both just hold each other along.
If it weren't for him, I'd still be chasing unavailable and abusive men, because I thought that was all I deserved. I've had a lot of good therapy too, but I needed to be able to fill that "hole in my soul" myself first.
Still together after eight years (over seven of them married).
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