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Old Jul 19, 2018, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn View Post
This is starting to make a whole lot of sense. H insisted we fix the a/c in my car shortly before my recent trip. (I really didn't mind not having it.) So we spent the $$ and got it fixed. Then while I was out of town, he put a radio in my car (which it didn't have either and I also didn't care about and never asked him to do.) He said he thought I was punishing myself by suffering without them. I said I didn't feel that way, it really didn't bother me not having either as my commute to work is not that long and I preferred spending $ elsewhere (ahem like on therapy) rather than on my car. Maybe he does feel threatened somehow by all the changes I've made esp the physical ones.

I'm not sure that last sentence ties in with the rest. But it seems like he has a very clear idea of what your priorities should be in terms of spending money, and they don't match with yours. He may think you're punishing yourself without a radio, while you feel more like you're punishing yourself by not having therapy.
Thanks for this!
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