_Fly, thanks for words of wisdom - I have wondered about that 12 step idea before. I am trying to understand it by trying to understand life and what it's all about.
Like what are we here for ? I believe we are not worth much if we cant be of help to others, but that was some of my down fall - all I became was 'all-cared-out '.
So, my journey continues...... take care...Poppet