t also said that I should start separating out my money from his and put my whole paycheck in a different bank account so he can't take all the money. and if he does leave, to change the locks immediately. i can barely even go there in my mind right now. she was asking me all kinds of questions about our finances, about how much money he actually makes, said i probably make more than he does from what i've said in the past, that he probably couldn't afford to support himself without me, etc. i'm in complete denial like she said.