Look, I am not trying to be confrontational here. I am genuinely trying to understand why your therapist is so invested into going into the unknown instead of working with what is known in the here and now.

What concerns me is that this idea that you might have been abused is coming from her, not from you. If you had the feeling that you were abused at the young age but don't remember, I'd, at least, understand the therapist's desire to try to get to the specific memories. But, even in that case, she can't use EMDR for that. Also, as, I think, I mentioned in the other thread, I don't believe in fishing for memories. In my experience, unconscious reveals itself on its own terms, not anyone else's.

I don't want to ask for any details, but I am just wondering what gives her the idea that you were abused...You don't need to explain if you don't want to.