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Originally Posted by ~Christina
He took a step to see his Therapist while it seems small it is a big step.
Moving can toss anyone sideways , it did for me , I was a hot mess.
Hope things settle and you two can have a open discussion about all of the stuff your worried about. I’m sure he’s worried also
Marriage counseling might help you a lot.
Good luck
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Thanks! Yes, moving is always really hard. It has taken a huge toll on both of us. I think that is contributing to my feelings. I feel like burdens have fallen on me to handle things, even though I'm also struggling with my mental health. Sometimes I want to say "This is effecting me too". But, I'm trying to be a good partner and just keep upbeat and moving forward so we both don't fall in to a slump. But, meanwhile I have been prone to crying in the bathroom or on my drive to work. Its really hard to have to be the strong one. In these times, I really do need him and his support, but I can't get it because he's got his own things going on. Which is why I am scheduled to see a new therapist and upped my medications. So I can cope through this.