Art, your therapist is very very interested in her clients’ money. And how she can make it hers.

But, while it’s none of her business, I do think it’s a good idea for you, or anyone in a troubled relationship, to have a good picture of their family finances in their head. Not down to every dollar and cent, but good ballpark idea. In the history of heterosexual divorce at least, it’s usually the woman who gets screwed financially.