Who died and made him boss?

Do you need to present him with a bill for 20 years worth of cooking and laundering etc?

Did he forget who was at his side when he was sick?

I dont mean to be pressuring you. Honestly, i would tell him to just stop, we will discuss it when we both cool down. And in the meantime, we will both do as we NEED to. This is just bullying what he is doing. "Holding it in". Hmph.

And maybe you need to review what god says about staying in a marriage where the other person does not value and respect you. Cuz i think they say its alright to leave. God does not want you to be abused. He loves you more than that.

Eta - when i say god, i mean, philosophically speaking or whatever. What is right in the world.