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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
Doing my part for whisper in case it hasn't moved off 13 yet I can't tell on Tapatalk.
At work, just finished doing test calls for a project I'm on. Time to work some emails now.
Oh yeah t told me yesterday that she still thinks I'm underemployed. I was thinking oh geez not this again. Why does she persist in thinking I'm smarter than I am? Besides the fact that I love what I do now.
She was asking lots of questions about my finances and aghast that I didn't know numbers off our tax forms off the top of my head. I don't like when she gets all pushy about that stuff. It's none of her business, right?
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Art, dear, I like that your t is supportive. She says cool things and does dreams and provides support and wants good things for you and so on.
And you're right, your finances are NONE of her business. (Again.)
I have been hesitant to post this for a couple Couch pages because I know you're under a lot of pressure, and feeling divided between your t and your h. But reading stuff like this makes me cringe.
It's screaming boundary issues. Unless any professional is a financial professional (think attorney, financial advisor, billing manager, financial aid officer....) the details of your finances are not relevant to your work together.
Hugs, hugs, hugs.