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Originally Posted by Dnester
Thank you. Its just so hard. My mother gave me some information that I had forgotten about and i am having trouble processing it. My mom told me at 8 that i told my father i wanted to give him o**l s*x. Thats why I am kind of stumped right now its just like a puzzle with missimg pieces. I dont know where to begin in processing all of this. I greatly appreciate your help. That is good advice.
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You are welcome. Make sure to interview all potential therapists properly. Unfortunately, this might be a costly process because, in your case, I believe, you'd have to have a face-to-face meeting with each potential therapist. Your case is too sensitive and also difficult to rely on phone interviews.
When you meet with each of them, ask them if they are experienced in working with people who
a) were sexually abused as children
b) perpetrators of child sexual abus
c) people who have sexual obsession about children but who never acted on them
If they ask you why you are asking those questions just explain your situation as it is. They are bound by the requirement to keep what you say confidential so you can explain the whole situation with no fear and explain what you expect from a therapist. If you sense that they are even slightly uncomfortable with the topic or judgmental towards you, move on to interviewing the next one. You want to make sure you find the right match. Good luck.