I suspect T gave me a transition object but never called it that. She had bought a few jelly type bracelets for Breast cancer. At the moment I can't find it but I know it is here someplace.
At our last appointment she had cut some flowers from her garden. She put them in a vase for me. I have written her name and date on it. I have never been a huge cut flowers person but she picked my favorite flower. Since her passing I have always had fresh flowers in it on my table