Thread: Pandora’s box
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Old Jul 20, 2018, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme View Post
I am so sorry! It must feel like she snuck up on you bc she told you at the end of the session. They know that is "doorknob " commentary when it comes from a client.



This happened to me in the second week of January. I am afraid to even look back at my posts bc I was beside myself. I told him he had see-ya-wouldnt -want-to-be-ya written all over his face. He coaxed me into relating a trauma detail I was very leery of talking about , and then his parting words to my tear-streaked face were" Oh I will be out next week". Recently I have felt sentimental about how much he is there for every session, on time focused and really listens, and appreciating that more. That is the flip side.


That’s pretty awful, no duty of care to clients. I felt my t coaxed me too!
I would appreciate a notice from t of her vacation at the start of session so then I could of decided to proceed to talk about this horrible trauma.

It’s very hard to see that see ya- wouldn’t want to be ya face when there is so much pain. I thought my t had a smug face too but then I thought that I had probably distorted it in my head.

Did it take long for you to trust your t again?
Thanks for this!
TrailRunner14