I never was interested in any kind of revenge or get closures etc I usually think the best revenge is living well and if someone is an ...hole it’s on
them, not me. However apparently it’s not working this way when it comes to something bad done on to the ones we love.

My daughter is a widow, she lost her husband under tragic circumstances two years ago. He was a sweetie and still is greatly missed. She grieved intensely including specific bereavement counseling and started dating. I felt it was too early but who listen to mom, right?

She met a guy who appeared perfect on surface but something was just off for me from the beginning. My whole family had uneasy feeling from
the beginning.

It ended up being a very fast romance resulting in her relocating (it wasn’t a traditional long distance, it was more that he had to move for work). Without divulging too many details she completely uprooted herself and she is not typically impulsive person at all. The guy turned out to be a complete and total jerk who was trying to take financial advantage of her (she did get a job right away ina new location but the fact that he makes about 5 times more than she does yup you heard that right), he also turned out to be a vicious and verbally and emotionally abusive alcholic. There is more to it.

So that’s over now, she pretty much had to move out immediately (with her cat) because he made her life he$$). She now has to rebuild her life. Move. Get a different job. Etc etc She’ll be fine entually but her self esteem took a dive (she is a very confident person)

Now the issue is that I am full of rage and desire to do something to a guy. Of course I won’t, he is a lawyer, and will come after us. But one can dream.

My mom and my husband come up with the most bizarre scenarios. Like photoshopping his face to inappropriate pictures and post them everywhere online. Send something to his work, like inappropriate materials etc In a way it provides us some comic relief because my husband and my mom are pretty inventive in their ideas what to do to a guy. It’s quite funny if it wasn’t that sad. We won’t do nothing of course. But I do wish I could.

I am not typically up to hating anyone and in fact there is no one I ever hate (maybe monsters like Hitler) but I hate a guy with passion