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Or maybe that knowing you have cuts means that you could possibly blackmail (if that's the right word - maybe I'm thinking of bribe) them for their love,

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Thats something I never thought of and is quite scary..It makes it sound so deliberate and cunning, oh god i dont mean to I don't really know how to respond.

Thanks to everyone else for responding though.