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Originally Posted by ruh roh
Art, I got talked into an ACOA meeting once, and it was a horrible match. On the upside, I left feeling really great about myself because the people there were super messed up. The person who dragged me there said the groups vary widely. He had been going to one in another town and said this one wasn't to his liking either. So I guess, just go with an open mind, without thinking it's representative of all groups if you don't click. Think of it like an assignment from one of your psych classes, to give yourself a little room for objectivity. That way, if it doesn't suit you, meh, try another.
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I would find i had enough in common to relate to their situations, and it would give me a perspective on mine. Like, it was easier for me to think, "oh, he is SO lying to YOU, why cant you SEE?" or whatever, and then you see why she cant see, and then you see what you couldnt or wouldnt see in yourself. And why your t couldnt just poke it out of you.
I know, i talk too much!