I’m sorry you are going through this.

I’m not clear what the complaint with the SW is about? Is the complaint about her revealing too much (her dream)? Is it about her initiating contact with you? Is it about her sexualizing therapy, especially knowing you’ve been exploited before?

My guess is by now she is being legally advised not to talk to you. She’s trying to protect herself. I understand you wanted to protect her, too, for a time. But if she sexualized therapy with you, it wouldn’t much matter to the state board if you tried to defend her; in my case, I maintained the exploiter was a ‘good man who just made a mistake’ until I realized what he had really done to me. The medical board saw beyond my initial feelings and eventually revoked his license.