Rainy, we're always here for you without the requirement of needing to offer support. Just knowing people understand is enough support sometimes. Please never stay away just because you don't think you can help.

Your relationship with SO is getting bad because of the mixed episode. Is there a way you can push out your trip not refund it? If not I think you should go IP now so there's a possibility you'll be out in time. You don't want to loose SO. If you can post-pone your trip I would call pdoc Monday. Does he have an emergency number that you can call today?

If a garage sale is to much are you well enough (with the help of SO) to box up all the extra's in the house and donate it to a homeless shelter for a tax write off?

Is it possible for you to stay with SO while selling the house and finding a new one? I forget if you guys live together.