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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
When people hurt your heart, how do you react or respond? 
With me, I don’t have only one reaction or response, it varies, who it is, how long we’ve known each other, whether they are a “relative” etc..
I would like to be “healthier” whatever that means. But I’m me. Nobody can change or “fix” that. 
Hugs to all  |
My initial response seems always to be cutting all ties with the person, whether temporarily out permanently. One of my issues is that I act before really thinking about what actually happened to lead to the hurt. I have been struggling with this lately with someone I was dating. I misunderstood how serious the relationship was after I was already emotionally invested. I overreacted to the news that she was not as serious as I was.