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Originally Posted by besmith818
My initial response seems always to be cutting all ties with the person, whether temporarily out permanently. One of my issues is that I act before really thinking about what actually happened to lead to the hurt. I have been struggling with this lately with someone I was dating. I misunderstood how serious the relationship was after I was already emotionally invested. I overreacted to the news that she was not as serious as I was.
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I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. I usually don’t “over react” like I used to sometimes do. Unless it’s with a doctor, I can’t seem to get the hang of explaining what I require from them in 11 seconds ....
so I avoid them whenever I can
or I just say “everything is fine” - once a year
I have brought in a short note a couple of times, and one of the friendlier doctors said something about a “laundry list” ..
I don’t live in the USA
I guess it’s nuts to get hurt by doctors, they are there to “serve” us ... except it appears to be that sometimes (often) they don’t. JMO.
(Btw I’ve found GP’s the worst. Over here. Almost zero time...............)