Oh man, I'm sorry you've delt with this type of thing. Sounds like it went even farther then my situation. Im so sorry. Yeah the complaints basis was about the dream mainly. As I wrote i didn't go to my states Department of Health ( There is no SW board in my state it's all under the DPH) I made the complaint through the NASW so there were specific ethical codes I had to put down that she broke. It really freaked me out that what she did falls under sexual Harrassment. It didn't feel like being sexually harrassed, it just felt like a betrail. I didn't mention in the main post but when I tried to talk to her about the dream she denied what she said. I so wish I came at her differently. I wish instead of txing her I called her and told her that I had to speak with her. I should have been more insistant. But so much of the problem has been her inability to understand there is a problem. It took me talking to her on the phone during one of the hr. long conversations I had with her for her to admit what she said again.
Thank you so much for responding it seems like you totally understand that feeling of having been sexually used but still feeling the need to protect the person who did it. I'm talking more about my teacher with that but I hate how familiar it feels when I think about my therapist. I hate that so much.
I think you're right about a lawyer telling her not to talk to me and I really appreciate you understand that. Thanks so much for replying