To do anything to help herself,first she must think/feel she is WORTH the effort; and to do that,she needs to have self-esteem.
Please see if she will get these books to help lift her worth;
"Honouring The Self",and "The Six Pillars Of Self-Esteem" by
Nathaniel Branden. The guy is a psychologist and expert on
self-esteem,he changed my life-do urge her to get them.
Kind Regards,
BLUEDOVE