It sounds like you have many things going for you. Having and maintaining and improving your house are all great things!

In my view, 45 minutes sessions should last 45 minutes. There can be another session next week.

If a therapist believes that she unable to treat you, she should refer you at once to someone who can.

Why did the therapist call the police if you missed or cancelled a session?

You can calculate your BMI on line. You are not obese. If all you see is fat, in my view it is probably because you have a self-esteem issue. This is something to address in regular therapy.