It sounds like she behaved in a really inappropriate manner towards you. I can't think of any good reason for a T to tell a client about her dreams at all, much less sexual ones involving the client. While it's clear you're having a rough time I think in the long run it's good that there's an ethics complaint against this woman. Also, it sounds like you've been in a really difficult place and pretty vulnerable—this is in no way your fault. A T or SW should be prepared to deal with that and keep their own issues separate.