They don't have to be women. It is just that most of my friends in my life have been women. Including high school, I can count 4 guys that I have been close to. Exclude that and the number is 1 guy. For some reason I gravitate towards women friends. I did put looking for people in my profile as opposed to looking for women but I wouldn't expect to hear from a guy.

Even my new neighbors are like that. The wife talks to me much more than her husband. That actually feels normal to me.

She didn't make me stay that long, that is how long we ended up talking. She handles assigning patients to therapists and pdocs and does CBT-I so she has a more open schedule than the therapists do. Despite that she claims she hasn't scratched the surface with me. I thought it was odd too. My regular doctor contacted her after my last physical because she saw something odd with me. I feel the same as always, which admittedly isn't a great place to be but isn't dire.