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Old Jul 22, 2018, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted by besmith818 View Post
I can definitely relate to "grow a thick skin". I can't stand when people tell me that. Yes, I'm sensitive and am affected deeply both when good things and bad things happen. I don't think it means I have to change and lose my sensitivity. Maybe I need to deal better, but I am who I am.

Sorry for the rant.
I find comments like “grow a thick skin” exceptionally boring, and not overly intelligent. It would appear to me that people who enjoy that type of comment don’t have much insight into themselves or others. JMO.

You say “maybe I need to deal better” - maybe this is what people who make insensitive or trite comments want you to feel...

No need to apologise for the rant.

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