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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
...But back to childhood-- and because you asked-- I can see how neglect/inattention from parents would make you seek a "stimulating" relationship in adulthood because a lack of response or emotion feels bad and amped up emotion feels good...
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This resonates. Inattention leaves me in a depressed state, while yelling at least gets my adrenalin up. I used to say, when commuting to work, that i didnt wake up (or cheer up) until i yelled at my first a hole driver, despite drinking coffee.