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Originally Posted by here today
It sounds as if when this happens the other person "isn't there for you". Is that accurate?
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I think so, and in some cases maybe they are pretending to be supportive, or to have my best interests at heart, but actually aren’t
Another example is a maternal unit saying to a 10 year old ? “It’s your decision” ..trite, useless, and actually quite hurtful
Or “you would have sunk or swum” - from a maternal unit. How boring.
They wanted me to go to boarding school (maybe I would have “got on” better there.. but she wanted to get rid of me.
And they could only “afford” ... “mixed jam”
how ridiculous
Oh .. and “dried milk” ............
