Thank you both!
That’s it too, I’m not sure. I do love him, I’m just insanely hurt and feel betrayed. Every time we would fight over the months, he would use it to get closer to her.
And the love I feel for him feels so different, like a guarded love. He has been more loving towards me in the past month and a half, just all the things that happen I’m having a hard time getting past. Both his actions towards her in the past, and his words as well to her and when I ended it, he was so nasty to me.

I know that he has all those pictures(no nudes but pictures of her butt and selfies and random picture of her working) he said I’m being unfair to ask him to delete them, that they are on his phone and I shouldn’t worry about them. He use to tell her all the time that he couldn’t wait to see her smile via text so the thought that he has like 30 pictures of her all smiling that he cherishes hurts. But that’s just his “best friend” (mind you they met at work, they didn’t know each other prior and emotional affair lasted for 8 months)

Am I being unfair to ask him to delete them? Am I overstepping his personal space by asking them to be gone.

Thanks!!!