I'm new on here and when I looked at the forums I didn't know where this fit so I am starting here.
I'm trying to make a decision about a family matter that has been bothering me for some time. My father recently revealed a lot of 'dirty laundry' about he and my mother which initially was shocking but then helpful as it freed me from some negative beliefs I had about myself. Now I am confused about whether to tell my brothers what I was told because it might also help them in the long run. I feel like they have a right to know as my parents behaviors, though hidden, impacted us - kids pick up on everything and I was certainly effected. But will my brothers just think I'm causing trouble, and does that matter? My mother won't tell them though she has apologized to me and admitted that she has been dishonest.
Do they have a right to know?
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