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Originally Posted by ChickenNoodleSoup
I’d go in and say that you started self harming again. That it used to happen in high school, but you didn’t talk about it with her because it wasn’t something that was bothering you up until now. If you feel like you should mention the one time you lied, you can mention it happened once while you were seeing her without going into specifics. Lots of people take some time before sharing such things, I’m sure your T is used to that.
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This is all great advice!
I initially did not admit the truth to my T. It was a relief to tell him. He didn’t see it as me lying—just as me having difficulty sharing something hard. Ts are very much used to people doing this.
I think getting it out in the open will feel good.