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Originally Posted by ruh roh
Hi musing, this does not surprise me at all, and I am so sorry. I remember when she was doing things like talking to her daughter and/or daughter's therapist on the phone during your session, and texting you while on the phone with another client (and actually told you this). She has always seemed less than present for you, except when overdoing it that first year.
You were such a different person when you started therapy. Almost happy and bubbly. You had gone because of marriage issues, if I recall, and then your therapist started reeling you in and things spiraled. This is not how therapy is supposed to work, but I understand how attachments can prevent people from leaving an unhealthy relationship.
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Thank you, ruh roh. You have a VERY good memory! You are exactly correct. She did over do it that first year....said she was trying to gain my trust, she said. I guess, because of all I've been through with her myself, I'm just curious if she made someone else feel the same way I still do. I have been trying to seek out other therapists......it hasn't gone well. I feel like giving up on therapy completely....just accepting I am who/what I am and moving on. Therapy has just made things worse.