cherryberry, I'm sorry that you feel bad, and I can understand why you do feel bad. I'm guessing that you posted because you want others to support your upset feelings about the action you took and how your daughter reacted to that action.
I truly don't think anyone who replied to you on this thread intended to be hurtful. Can you see that all of the replies have been posted out of concern for the consequences of you doing something illegal? It's not about you being "bad", it's about you probably coming up against some expensive, frustrating, and even serious legal trouble a little ways down the line. I'm guessing that your daughter actually is being mature about setting a boundary with an action that she knows isn't a wise one to take. Maybe you can try to be grateful for raising a daughter who has healthy boundaries and can take care of herself.

Since your income is low, have you applied for Medicaid? With Medicaid you could speak with a therapist. Another idea that I think could really help you sort some things out is for you to attend a NAMI group in your location. The groups are free. You can check online to see if there's a group where you live.