I felt this way for a long time. For me, I don't want any relationship that's "forced". My gf and I became friends first, naturally before we started dating. Not because I was seeking a relationship. I think it just makes things so much more genuine and real.

Also imho some people want relationships for the wrong reasons. They want someone to take care of them or their kids, or they're afraid of being alone. They end up settling for the first person that comes along who they don't even truly love. Sometimes I cringe when I see how unhappy a relationship/marriage looks and I know that individual would be much better off on their own.

Good for you for thinking for yourself and doing what makes you happy.