I have had an emotional chat with my daughter who understands and is supportive. She has spoken to my son who seems unaware of what his future mother in law has said.

I am waiting to speak to him about it. It's hard because I don't want to pass my trauma onto my children, their father has already done enough damage. I find it hard to talk about such things with my son because I get very upset and he hates seeing me like that.

It is so hard. Thanks for your kind replies.