Hi Knitchick,

I agree with Crazy Hitch. Writing the letter can be very cathartic and helpful to you in your own healing process, but a year later, sending it could be another story. It could open up wounds if he doesn't reply or if he does reply and it could make things worse for you when you are already feeling vulnerable. At this point in the story, I would say write it but keep it to yourself, and possibly burn it, like Crazy Hitch suggested.